This week we’re going to investigate a couple of mind-centered techniques for increasing relaxation and decreasing stress: meditation and guided imagery. While these practices might seem strange or unfamiliar to you, they can be very effective in reducing stress and improving your overall wellbeing. Mind-centered relaxation is all about using the power of our minds to relax our bodies. Some studies have shown that meditation and guided imagery can be used to reduce stress, lower blood pressure, improve depression, speed healing and reduce pain.
Meditation
Meditation is often associated with Eastern religions, such as Hinduism and Buddhism. But meditation isn’t used solely as a religious tool and doesn’t have to occur only in the traditional sense. Meditation is simply the practice of focusing your attention and/or becoming more mindful of your presence in the world. Concentration meditation involves meditation on a single thing, like your breath, a phrase or word, a sound, or an image. Mindfulness meditation, on the other hand, is a practice of awareness where you recognize whatever enters your mind and allow it to pass through without giving it your attention.
Meditation doesn’t have to take place in a specific area, at a specific time, or in a specific position. Find a space and position that is comfortable for you. Choose a quiet place, or play some soft music. Pick a mantra, image or item to focus on, or center yourself on your breath. Start slow, with only a few minutes of meditation at a time, and gradually increase the amount of time you spend in meditation. Make it a habit. Don’t give up if you find you have difficulty staying focused or sitting still. Learning to meditate takes time. Remember, it’s called a practice for a reason. But remember that relaxation shouldn’t bring you more stress. If you’re finding that meditation isn’t for you, try something else. Some people find meditation frustrating. Give it a fair shot, and try to push through some of the discomfort of being quiet and motionless, but if it doesn’t bring you peace and calm, consider finding another relaxation outlet.
Guided Imagery
Guided imagery is similar to meditation, but it centers on visualization. When you practice guided imagery you generally follow a script or imagine a particular scene, situation and/or outcome. Guided imagery is often used to reduce pain and relieve stress. Again, this practice takes time to master. Start by using a script and gradually move on to creating your own scenarios or images. Find an image that makes you feel calm, or imagine a situation in which you always feel relaxed. Then gradually place yourself in that image or situation.
For example, if you find that you always feel more relaxed on the beach, you might imagine a pristine beach. The sun sparkles on the water. Shells glisten on the shore. There are ships sailing peacefully along the horizon. Once your image of the beach is clear, you might imagine yourself slowly walking up and over a sand dune to see the beautiful, deserted white-sand beach. The waves crash rhythmically on the shore as you take steps toward the water, your feet sinking into the warm sand. The sun feels warm and inviting and a light breeze brushes your skin…You get the idea.
Practice, Practice, Practice
It may seem strange that you would have to practice something that’s supposed to relax you, but in a world as busy as ours is, it takes practice to teach yourself how to be still and focus on a single object or image. Over the next few weeks, try to carve out a few minutes each day to practice one or both of these techniques. Practice meditating or visualizing at different times of the day. Experiment with different mantras or concentration points when you meditate. Or try a variety of scenarios during your visualization sessions. Take note of how you feel after your session, and throughout the day. With time, you should discover a practice that works well for you and helps you to better cope with the stressful situations that life sends your way.
For more information on meditation and some sample meditation exercises, visit these web pages:
http://www.webmd.com/hw-popup/Meditation-21804
http://www.wikihow.com/Meditate
For more information on guided imagery and some sample imagery exercises, visit these web pages:
http://www.webmd.com/hw-popup/Guided-imagery
http://www.webmd.com/hw-popup/Imagery-exercises-for-relaxing-and-renewing-your-energies
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